Physical Touch The Love Language

Physical Touch The Love Language

Physical touch is healthy and a special love language God has given us.

Hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing, flirting, physical touching any time of the day, anywhere, brushing against each other, touching each other under the table, back scratch, arms around each other, coyly caress her breast or butt no matter where you are, let her reciprocate. Touch each other under clothing or with no clothing on. Touch each other genitals. Have sexual intercourse.

Intimate touching is not restricted to just the bedroom.

We are designed to share, touch, relate to each other, have children, marry, have compassion, experience pleasure, and much more. Our humanity involves the acceptance of the physical aspects of our bodies given to us by God. It is through our physical relationship that we see God’s relationship with us.

God intended for us to have and enjoy perfect intimacy with each other. It was created by God as a gift to us.

In marriage you should not be ashamed to let the world know that you love each other. It should not be a secret. Physical love is a reflection of God’s love for everyone. Shame is not from God

Sex is one of the first acts God blessed (Gen 1:28). The unclothed body is a divine creation and we were created to have sexual desire. God designated physical love to be a normal part of His creation.

To the pure, all things are pure; but to those who are defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure. (Titus 1:15)

It’s your moment, don’t care who is watching.

Shame

Shame

Adam and Eve’s coverings separated their sexuality and who they were made to be since they were now aware of the sin they had committed. Similarly, Satan tempts us to cover the parts of us we feel are different. Shame and hiddenness form a barrier between us and God, and us and each other. Shame ultimately builds an emotional and spiritual prison in which only we get to live. Satan loves this.

Relying on perceived differences, shame primarily attacks our identity, it lies about who we are and wants to convince us that something is wrong with us.

We can rest knowing Jesus’ death and resurrection conquered our shame and guilt. Because we are “in Christ” we don’t have to hide anymore from God or anyone else. We are free to be genuine with all our gifts, struggles, and nakedness.

(2 Cor 3:17)

Christ asks us to partner with Him to break this cycle of shame. To do this we must share what we so desperately want to hide. We need to return to the way things were in the Garden before the fall and in so doing seek the cloaking of God’s Spirit on us as it was in the beginning.

God’s Design Of Our Bodies In Creation

God’s Design Of Our Bodies In Creation

He designed us for union with Him and others. Our bodies have been created by God and are good. Our bodies reveal deep truths about the meaning of life. Through our bodies we make visible the love of God.

Our gender and sexuality were designed to lead us to joy, connection, life, growth, relationships, family, pleasure, children, and marriage. God must really enjoy these things to have planned for us to participate in them.

The human body is very special to God, it is an intrinsic part of who we are as human beings, it is the personal handiwork of God, there is no shame to be found in our bodies as God created them.

We are created to receive God, contain God, be one with God, and express God.

We are spiritual beings, personal beings, moral beings, rational beings, and creative beings.

Conformity damages the Spirit of God’s people, diversity rules, there are no two exactly alike. Re-creation comes only by new birth, a spiritual rebirth that enables us to be fashioned after God, who is spirit.

We are made for procreation, visual pleasure, physical pleasure, relief of physical and emotional stress, to comfort one another, and to sacrifice. Submission is a part of the overall being. We are made and challenged to bring us out of our comfort zone.

The sexual aspect of our being is to be restricted to the covenant of marriage.