Marriage and Sex

Marriage and Sex

The norm is that Christians will marry and that as a Christian couple, the husband and wife will enjoy regular sexual relations.

A healthy sex life is a preventive for immorality.

Both husband and wife should regularly engage in the sexual act as their duty, both to God and to each other.

Both husband and wife should not only give themselves for sex, but each should seek to produce the ultimate pleasure for their partner. Reaching the ultimate pleasure is the sexual union is what best insures against immorality.

Neither the husband nor the wife has the authority to deprive their mate sexually. It is wrong to deprive one’s mate of the pleasures of sexual intimacy.

Those Christians who have been forcibly making a celibate of their mate by withholding sex are commanded to stop sinning in this fashion.

Sexual abstinence is to be a rare and temporary exception to the norm of regular sexual union.

Sex cannot be mutually satisfying without real love.

Spirit filled sex when each strives to please the other is important.

Sexuality and spirituality are very closely related. We are to make sexuality an expression of our spirituality to the glory of God, and for our good.

Physical Touch The Love Language

Physical Touch The Love Language

Physical touch is healthy and a special love language God has given us.

Hugging, cuddling, holding hands, kissing, flirting, physical touching any time of the day, anywhere, brushing against each other, touching each other under the table, back scratch, arms around each other, coyly caress her breast or butt no matter where you are, let her reciprocate. Touch each other under clothing or with no clothing on. Touch each other genitals. Have sexual intercourse.

Intimate touching is not restricted to just the bedroom.

We are designed to share, touch, relate to each other, have children, marry, have compassion, experience pleasure, and much more. Our humanity involves the acceptance of the physical aspects of our bodies given to us by God. It is through our physical relationship that we see God’s relationship with us.

God intended for us to have and enjoy perfect intimacy with each other. It was created by God as a gift to us.

In marriage you should not be ashamed to let the world know that you love each other. It should not be a secret. Physical love is a reflection of God’s love for everyone. Shame is not from God

Sex is one of the first acts God blessed (Gen 1:28). The unclothed body is a divine creation and we were created to have sexual desire. God designated physical love to be a normal part of His creation.

To the pure, all things are pure; but to those who are defiled and unbelieving, nothing is pure. (Titus 1:15)

It’s your moment, don’t care who is watching.